Signs of Abuse / Teens
http://www.hopesurvives.com/teenabuse.html


Up to one third young adults between the ages of 16 and 20 have reported being either the perpetrator or the victim of abuse in a dating relationship.

At the onset of these relationships, the violence is not necessarily severe. Often it will come in the form of intimidation, threats and manipulation. Nine times out of ten the violence will increase in intensity, severity, and frequency. What these young people see as harmless behavior should ultimately be a warning sign of potential abuse.

Here you will find signs that may mimick the behavior of a potential abuser. Although resembling just one of these behaviors does not constitute a violent relationship, two or more may. 


Does he lose his temper frequently? 

Does he degrade you in front of others or while you are alone? 

Does he abuse alcohol or drugs? 

Does he follow you? 

Does he demand to know the plans of your entire day? 

Does he try to isolate you from family and friends? 

Does he tell you how to dress, or how to wear your hair? 

Does he tell you that he will kill himself (or you) if you ever leave him? 

Does he force you to have sex with him? 

Does he slap, hit or punch you? 

Does he pull your hair, or twist your fingers or arms? 

Does he tell you that your opinion doesn't matter?